Thursday, February 14, 2013

Colossians Chapter 3


1 If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God. 2 Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.
I love the Lord.  That is not why I began to serve Him but I serve Him out of love now.  Whatever your reasons for asking Christ to dwell in your heart, it must one day turn to love and relationship because God has not done this as a jobs program or eternal insurance.  He wanted children and Christ wants a bride.  The Hebrew word for father is ab or sometimes abba.  Love is ahab.  In Hebrew letters the word for father is aleph bet.  The word for love is heh aleph bet.  You might ask, “So what?”
Love is the breath of God joined to the strength and protection of a father.  Abram went from being a great man to beyond greatness by adding that breath of God. AbraHam.  Sarai went from being the mother to mother of multitudes with that breath, SaraH.  God wants to add that divine breath to your life too.  Can you see how God might be offended by sex passed off as love or ungodly relationships?  As offensive as that might be to Him, I believe our lack of loving fathers standing by their roles might be equally distasteful.
If we fail to love one another and love God then from His point of view, what is the point?  He created us to love.  We are so tuned to it that we will seek it when there is no possible avenue for proper love and respect around us.  Look at the first two verses again.  Jesus is sitting on the throne beside God’s right hand waiting for our fullness to come.  From time to time He must intercede on our behalf because we forget ourselves and behave like the world. 
They are both fully aware of the lost around us and their hearts desire is for those people to be saved…but…we are the center of their focus.  We have responded and replied.  We have turned our eyes to the hills from where our help comes.  What verse two is trying to make us understand is do not be double minded.  Do not put your hand to the plow and look back.  Your paths will never be straight.  Focus on the goal and press toward it no matter how those around you may try to drag you off course.
3 For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.
I keep hammering at this and it never seems to get through to anyone.  We are dead.  Dead men and dead women don’t complain; they don’t sin and they don’t run off on their own adventures.  In our case we are dead in Christ and our life is hidden with our Savior in our Father.  We are hidden like Psalm 91 says, under the wings of our Lord.  We are protected under His feathers.  Our real life is not of the Earth.  We are passing through and have an opportunity to do some witnessing for our Father while we’re here.
4 When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.
We’re not going to be left behind in some Heavenly Harem when Jesus returns.  We are the body of Christ.  When He returns and stands with his feet on both sides of Jerusalem and the Mount of Olives and that hill breaks in two, it will be our feet and our legs that stand on that mountain.  I have no idea what that will look like.  Consider the statue that king Nebuchadnezzar saw in his dreams and the one he actually built.  The one he saw was gold, silver, iron and iron mixed with clay.  The one he built was solid gold.  Jesus said our lives must be tried in the fire so we might come forth as pure gold.
5 Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry:
Make your physical body behave as if it is DEAD.  Let’s just look at this short list provided here.  A FAR more comprehensive one can be found in Galatians but let’s look at this one.  I have been in the church for a long time and am amazed how many people who never miss a service will do these things.  No fornication – No sex with someone you are not married to.  That’s pretty clear; no free taste in the name of love.  No uncleanness – No impure thoughts and time spent looking at pornography or forbidden sexual practices.  No inordinate affection – Plain old ordinary lust.  That thing you feel when your head is swiveling around on the beach like it’s going to spin off and hit the floor.  No evil concupiscence – Evil longing.  Wanting something that you know is forbidden to you.  Homosexuality falls into this category no matter how much you try to dress it up with marriage or ‘love.’  Finally, no more covetousness – You can’t want what someone else has and you shouldn’t keep wanting more, never being satisfied with what God has blessed you with.   
Paul said, “I have learned to be content in whatever state I am in.”  He would not have looked at a wealthy man’s Lear Jet and said, “I sure wish I could have that to minister with.”  He went where God sent him and did what God told him to do.  If you live within your means and trust God to bring increase you will have everything you need.  This is idolatry because it is more important to you than service to God and you are telling God He does not know how to take care of you.
6 For which things 'sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:
Not the children of the devil but the children of disobedience.  It could be the children of the devil or just disobedient children who refuse to obey and restrain their own fleshly desires.  Wrath is the word orge.  The word means that God is so incensed by our disobedience that He explodes in passionate uncontrolled anger.  Now that is not what I want to ever see pointed in my direction.  Have you ever seen the aftermath of a tornado?  It can roar down a street and level one house to the foundation while not even tipping over the birdbath next door.  If we stand side by side and the wrath of God hits you, I will be scratching my head wondering what happened to you.  Sorry but there was no way I was going to use myself for this analogy. 
7 In the which ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them.
Can’t speak for you but I have definitely walked down that road before.  I have to say I am thankful that God waited until I took a few spiritual showers before he looked too hard at me.  Let’s be honest, even now we all struggle.  It is a constant battle to remain dead to sin.  We don’t always succeed.  Regardless whether we do or not, don’t give up.  A righteous man falls seven times but he gets up again.
8 But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.
Anger - Orge – violent passion.  Vengeance is mine; I will repay saith the Lord.  Wrath – Thymos – Blazing instant heat which destroys and is just as quickly gone.  “I don’t know what came over me.”  Malice – Kakia – “When I get done with them they won’t know what hit them.  They won’t even see it coming until it’s too late.”  Blasphemy – Blasphemia - “Those miserable, low life scum sucking pigs!”  Doesn’t even have to be spoken against God.  This is why God said if you call someone a FOOL you are in danger of judgment. 
Finally, Filthy mouth communication – aischrologia ex hymon stoma – Obscene language and filthy speech.  The tongue is an unruly evil for with it we bless God and curse men.  Men and brethren, this should not be (James 3:8-10).  And yes, I have seen these things in the church.  It’s understandable since we are supposed to gather the hurt and wounded together to encourage each other to live holy but it is sad to see in God’s house.
9 Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;
Lying – pseudomai – Psuedo means fake.  A lie is a fake conversation passed off as the truth.  It’s intent is to lead someone astray from the truth and truth is what will make you free.  Satan is the father of lies.  We used to be part of his kingdom.  God is the Father of truth and now we are in His kingdom.  There will be a test later. 
10 And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:
You are washed in a shower, fed in a restaurant, entertained in a concert and renewed in knowledge.  A shower lasts only so long as you don’t sweat or get dirty.  A restaurant only stops your hunger for a few hours.  Entertainment becomes addictive and you keep wanting more and more exciting entertainment.  Living knowledge of God’s Word will keep the flesh at bay and submitted to our Lord and King.  Jesus wouldn’t make bread of stones, walked on water, was translated into the Kingdom of God and fed 5000 with a few loaves after defeating Satan.  Now that’s an image to become.
11 Where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free: but Christ is all, and in all.
In the new man God no longer judges by the nation you live in whether an actual Greek – Hellenist; Jew – Judean; spiritually and physically made Jewish or never made Jewish (Circumcised or Uncircumcised); Barbarian – Neither Jew nor Greek, rough speech, Scythian – Forbears to modern Russians (considered the most backward, violent barbarians of all); Bond – Doulos – Ear bored slave (Exodus 21:5-6); Free – Under no compulsion to do anything.  In Christ we are all equal before God though we all have different responsibilities to Him and different gifts and administrations of gifts (1 Corinthians 12:4-11).
12 Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
Are you clothed?  Before their fall Adam and Eve were naked yet without sin.  They were clothed with righteousness.  After the fall they lost their righteousness and were naked in their own eyes.  God says that before Christ came into our lives we were naked in all these areas and must as the elect of God put on a garment of praise.  How about you?  Are you running around as a naked saint or are you dressed to impress.  Nothing wrong with that if it’s the right type of clothing.
First of all, do you know that you are the elect of God, holy and beloved?  Is that understanding part of your own personal sense of self-esteem?  To be the elect means that you were chosen.  No man comes to God unless the Holy Spirit draws him.  Bowels of mercies means to be passionately gracious to others.  I must be honest; in all my time in the church I have not seen most people display this burden for mercy and love displayed more than a small percentage of the time.  Self-righteousness has been much more evident I’m sorry to say.
Kindness to … kids, pets, cute things, oh how sweet; grumpy, cranky old men, two faced liars and criminals – okay, now you’ve gone too far.  Actually beloved, God expects you to go even farther.  Humility of mind – what do you think of yourself?  We are in a difficult position in Christ.  We are kings and priests and yet we must humble ourselves before some of life’s worst people and treat them with utmost respect while they often despise us.  All that we are we receive from Christ and He was willing to give all to buy our lives.  We too must be willing to give all (emotions, heart, strength and intellect) to the service of God.
Meekness – Someone once said that meek is not weak but is power under control.  We know who and what we are in Christ.  It is not something we have to prove to anyone; what we must prove is that we are under control to the point that your opinions and words about or against me will in no way affect how I respond to those around me or you for that matter.  I will be meek as a lamb no matter; like a sheep before its shearer I will not speak out against those who rail against me. 
Oh dear, I can see those necks wobbling right now. 
Longsuffering – Patience, forbearance, constancy (remaining constant in love and action no matter the provocation.  It was said that Rabbi Hillel from whom Jesus quoted many times could not be made angry.  There is even a story about a man who deliberately kept pestering Hillel and keeping him from his rest on the Sabbath day to make the honorable man angry.  After the third or forth interruption of his Sabbath meal Hillel was heard to tell the man, “If your purpose is to cause me to lose my peace or become angry you are spending your time in vain.  I will not become angry.”  The same could not have been said of Rabbi Shammai.  Longsuffering may not be the most important attribute for saints of God but it is one that God uses powerfully in our lives and we ought to follow His example.
13 Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
I don’t have to put up with this!!!  Okay, one question.  Whose do you think you are?  If God’s…you absolutely do with few exceptions, infidelity in marriage or someone trying to destroy you.  That does not include your boss being a jerk or your spouse being rude or insensitive.  These are things to pray through.  Forbearance is a knight in full armor upon his powerful warhorse, in a hurry to important business, pausing to allow a poor man to herd his single sheep across the road.  The duty is important; the man heavily armed and highly placed and yet he will not abuse or disrespect one of God’s less lofty subjects even when that subject is a cantankerous, rude and disrespectful old pauper.
Forgiving one another – When you think of forgiveness do you think of forgetting or ‘dropping it?’  When God forgives He often forgets our sin but in our case, forgiveness means something different.  For us…and God…it means to give grace, mercy and assistance to the one who has wronged us.  In other words, it means to turn the other cheek while going the extra mile.  Keeping no record of wrongs is just one aspect, being a blessing is a more important part.  Can you do it?  I have a quarrel with you because of what you have done so I am going to go the extra mile and do something good for you to let you know there are no hard feelings.  Yes it requires wisdom so you don’t become a slave to an abusive personality, but we are talking about another somewhat immature brethren beloved. 
14 And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.
I want you to consider who Paul was talking to in this letter.  He had never been to Colosse and wasn’t able to personally minister to them.  Much of what he lays out here can take years of trials and frustration and tests to grow into and yet Paul expects it of these new converts.  Is it possible that we in this country and possibly those in other countries allow themselves a little too much freedom to be a fruit inspector, judging one another to determine who we ought to love and less being fruitful?
“Above all,” he writes, “put on love, agapao, God’s love, which is the bond that holds us together perfectly.”  One thing I have discovered is that no matter how frustrating my son or daughter or anyone else who has full access to my heart may have hurt me, I will still love them.  The relationship is not broken.  Are there relationships you have ended, not because they have so terribly hurt you but simply because it seems too hard to love that person?    Be honest about it but after some real soul searching, repent and submit yourself under the mighty and loving hand of God.  Love, forgiveness, longsuffering, gentleness, all the fruit of the Spirit are choices you make. 
15 And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.
Do you have His peace?  Philippians 4:7 says we can have a peace that exceeds our ability to understand or comprehend.  This peace should RULE, command and lead our hearts so we can be like Rabbi Hillel who loved the difficult visitor and said with confidence, “You can’t make me mad.”  There are times when I wonder if we really expect God to step in and be the power that makes a difference in our lives and relationships.  We are called, requested and invited into this body and we ought to be thankful for it.
16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.
You can’t have the word of Christ dwelling in you at all if you don’t study.  The bare minimum should be basic weekly Bible study at church.  Every saint ought to have a personal devotional time where they read and meditate on God’s Word.  So first God starts you on meditation and then encourages you to teach, warn and encourage one another by singing to one another.  It appears to me that we ought to have started Bible karaoke night in the church and start belting out gospel songs to one another while allowing the grace and love of God to take root in our hearts.  It also seems that if you lack grace this is the way to develop it…sing praises. 
I see it this way; if you don’t feel like singing and making melody to the Lord then your spiritual grace tank is low or empty.  Human beings are not like cars where you drive around until you need a fill-up and then buy gas.  We are like a mill grinding wheat and powered by a water wheel.  The moment the water stops so does the mill.  The moment God’s immediacy in our life stops so does the work we can perform in Him.  If there is no melody in your heart you are disconnected from the heavenly source and without true power.
17 And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
Ecclesiastes 9:10 says, “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with ALL your might.”  Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, who are THE CALLED according to His purpose.”  To these we add the admonition to live in the NAME of Jesus.  John 16:24 says,
“Up to now in your life you have asked nothing in my name (Jesus).  Ask now and receive that your joy may be full.”  Work hard for the Lord with all your might and God will make everything work together for your good.  Why? Because you are called to accomplish good works in the Name of the Lord and He will not allow you to fail but causes all things to work together to make you successful in your endeavor.  Since Jesus sits at the right hand of our Heavenly Father and since He is our advocate and the propitiation for our sins, we pray THROUGH the name of our Advocate Jesus and God will answer so OUR joy may be full. 
How great a promise is that?
18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
This verse has the potential to be one of the most divisive in the Bible.  There are presuppositions involved here that must be fulfilled for it to work and even bring peace and harmony to your home.  It presupposes that you and your wife are both born again Christians who are dedicated and committed to live their lives in a Christian manner.  It presupposes that you both put God first in your lives and are not selfish and disrespectful of the mate God has loaned to you.  We often say that God has loaned our children to us and we are required to raise them in the nurture and admonition of the Lord so when they are grown we can present them to God as mature saints who are ready to take up their kingdom responsibilities.  Adam said, “The woman you GAVE me sinned.”  He was attempting to pass the responsibility from himself to God.
Husbands, the verse above makes it the woman’s responsibility to submit willingly to you.  Stay out of her business.  Wives, it is your responsibility to submit to your saved, loving Christian husband.  Unless you live in a culture that forces the issue, you must do so willingly.  Consider this…if you do not submit to your husband you will have to explain your reasons to God.  If it turns out that your husband’s failures as a head of household or even as a minister of God’s word and purpose are a direct result of your unwillingness to be a true helpmeet then you will answer to God. 
Abigail submitted to her fool of a husband Nabal until it was apparent that doing so would cost the life of every male in her household.  She quietly fed David’s men and stopped the slaughter before it started.  She even accepted blame for not being a helpmeet to her husband’s greedy nature by being attentive to the visitor’s needs and allowing her husband’s poor attitudes to bring such danger into the household.  God killed Nabal and she married a husband that appreciated her wisdom, David. 
Wives have the ability to make a marginally decent husband into a great man of God and good provider.  They do it through encouragement and helping the areas where your husband is somewhat weak.  It is hoped that your husband will assist where you are somewhat weak as well.  These relationships should never be him against her but them, the couple, taking on the world.
19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
Husbands, husbandmen (one who causes plants to flourish), love, agapeo with God’s love your wives and do not be bitter or embittered against your wives nor cause them by your actions to become bitter.  Husbands, sacrifice as Christ sacrificed Himself for the church, give yourself for your wife so she might be filled with love and joy.  The responsibility is ours, as husbands, to make marriage to us as pleasant and rewarding an experience for our wives as possible. 
It is apparent that you will have little possibility to succeed and flourish in marriage unless verse 18 and 19 work together.
20 Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.
Ephesians 6:1-2 says, “Children obey your parents in the Lord because it is the right thing to do.  Give honor to your father and mother which brings a promise that you will live long on the Earth.”  This is one of the first commandments of God.  Jesus reminded us that He always did those things which please the Father (John 8:29).  One thing I have discovered is that almost all children love and cherish their parents when young and as they get older they begin to be angry toward them.  Part of this is a child’s desire to become more independent, but part is due to the parent’s relationship.
21 Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.
Fathers – do not provoke (stir up and agitate) your children.  We are supposed to be a bringer of stability to our children.  Love and strength ought to flow from us to them and give them a foundation of self-esteem to build on.  If we discourage them they may never overcome this early loss and succeed. 
Consider this, one child grows up in a loving and encouraging home where parents spend time with their children and help them discover their strengths and some things they can be passionate.  Another child grows up in a busy household where the parents come home too exhausted to spend time with their children.  Left to their own devices they are often in trouble and have no idea what things are out there to pique their interest or help them succeed.  Later in life those children marry. 
If the first child marries someone else who has had quality time with their parents the two will likely excel as parents and as a couple and find success.  If the first child marries the second child things might be more difficult and it places a lot of pressure on the well raised child to help build the other spouse’s confidence to succeed.  If both spouses are the second child then they may never succeed and lack even the direction needed to guide their weak spouse.  Both are weak.  How you raise your children largely decides how they succeed later in life.
I have known highly intelligent and not so intelligent people in my life and the ones with good self-esteem and discipline generally do better while the ones without do not, regardless of their intellect.  Having a great intellect is of no use whatsoever if you have no drive or will to exploit it.
22 Servants, obey in all things your masters according to the flesh; not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but in singleness of heart, fearing God:
We discussed this before, servants – doulos – bond slaves – serve your masters according to the nature of the relationship, not just to get by or seem to be doing your tasks, as if you seek to be recognized, but with a single minded determination to be the best servant possible as if it is unto God.  Abraham’s servant stood to inherit everything if Abraham died childless and yet he went out of his way to find the perfect wife for Issac by praying to make sure he didn’t make a mistake.  Joseph was sold into slavery in order to complete his preparation for service to God.  As a slave he did EVERYTHING as unto the Lord and God blessed him.
23 And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;
I don’t think we really have to explain this too much since we approached it fairly clearly a few verses ago.  No matter who you work for and no matter how much it seems you are working for a personality her or there, do it to God and not to the man.  Why?  Next verse.
24 Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.
That’s why.  The inheritance isn’t just in the hereafter and it isn’t just dependent upon how much you witness or how holy you live.  Your inheritance is affected by everything you do and say, especially toward those who have rule over you.  God desires to reach the mighty and the weak and he will use you to reach kings if your attitude is right.
25 But he that doeth wrong shall receive for the wrong which he hath done: and there is no respect of persons.
God will defend you or defend others from you.  You do not want God to have to protect others against you.  Live by the Spirit.  Love by the Spirit.  Treat everyone better than you want to be treated.  Make God’s way clear for Him.  Make it the way of life eternal and blessings in the here and now.
Press in beloved,
Bishop J

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