Sunday, November 15, 2015

Ruth Chapter 4 - Wedding Bells



1 Meanwhile Boaz went up to the town gate and sat there. When the kinsman-redeemer he had mentioned came along, Boaz said, “Come over here, my friend, and sit down.” So he went over and sat down. 2 Boaz took ten of the elders of the town and said, “Sit here,” and they did so.

Boaz went to the town gate and sat there.  The ones allowed to sit at the town gate were the elders and the petitioners.  The elders had to know the laws of the land and in the case of Israel, God’s law.  In 1 Corinthians 6:1-7 and on it speaks of us going to law against other Christians.  It states that we aren’t able to judge the smallest matters between ourselves.  What a shame.  Our ministers and elders should be men of such great integrity and truth that no one would have any problem going to them for a fair decision.  If there’s a problem in the church they should have enough Word in them to make a good judgment.  We’ve misapplied the Word to the point now where the word judgment has a bad connotation.  Shame on us.

Boaz did not enter into this judgment before the elders in anger or fear but in faith.  He didn’t try to color the purpose of the meeting so it would go his way but broke it down into it’s two parts and presented them.  The ten elders he had to sit together weren’t there to give judgment but to stand as witnesses to the transaction.  No one would ever be able to say that Boaz kept part of the truth hidden or tried to cheat his relative.

3 Then he said to the kinsman-redeemer, “Naomi, who has come back from Moab, is selling the piece of land that belonged to our brother Elimelech.

This is part one.  Naomi was their brother Elimelech’s wife and stood to inherit all that he owned.  This sale of his properties would leave her with enough money to survive and it would keep it in the family / clan setting.  That was important.  Remember that all the land in Israel belongs to God first and is loaned perpetually to the individual tribes, clans and families.  Elimelech may have leased it to someone else or have simply let it go fallow while he was away.  At any rate, Naomi was the current owner before God. 

4 I thought I should bring the matter to your attention and suggest that you buy it in the presence of these seated here and in the presence of the elders of my people. If you will redeem it, do so. But if you will not, tell me, so I will know. For no one has the right to do it except you, and I am next in line.” “I will redeem it,” he said.

As important as raising seed to continue Elimelech’s line was, it was not as important as the land itself.  The sin of Elimelech and his sons had cut off his line from Israel.  This sin was not paid for by sacrifices or offerings.  The land was lost…unless… someone still living could bridge the gap between the men in Naomi’s life and God.  That person had to be able to bridge that gap and provide an heir without sin or else Elimelech’s line would be cut off.  The person who could do this would perform a tikkun, a miraculous mending.  That person was Ruth.  In this she was a type of Mary the mother of Jesus.

The closer kinsman was unaware of this part of the redeemer act.  He thought it was simply a matter of buying the lease back to return it to the family and clan.  He was as wealthy as Boaz and did not mind at all.  He said that he could and would redeem the land.  Remember, to be a kinsman redeemer you had to be able AND willing to perform as well as of near enough kin to keep it in the family.  Concerning the land, he was able and willing.

5 Then Boaz said, “On the day you buy the land from Naomi and from Ruth the Moabitess, you acquire the dead man’s widow, in order to maintain the name of the dead with his property.”

Boaz now lets him know that he would also be required to marry the dead man’s widow and at the very least lay with her to produce an heir and maintain the family connection to the property.  Simply said, although the kinsman would pay off the lease of the land, he would not take the land into his possession but into Naomi and Ruth’s.  Had it just been in Naomi’s name he might have retained the right to farm the land and give Naomi a stipend to keep her going.  If he took Ruth as a wife then he would have to keep these parts of his life and finances separate. 

The other man probably had a wife and children of his own.  His wife might not want him to bring another woman into the family.  While there are numerous instances of a Jewish man marrying more than one woman, those relationships were always somewhat strained between the wives.  In the case of Jacob, Leah accused Rachel of stealing her husband from her.  Those two had a lively battle over Jacob’s affections during their life together.  This put a whole other light on Boaz’s proposal. 

6 At this, the kinsman-redeemer said, “Then I cannot redeem it because I might endanger my own estate. You redeem it yourself. I cannot do it.”

He didn’t mind buying the land or even taking care of Naomi.  He was not willing to complicate and possibly harm his own children’s inheritance by bringing another woman into the marriage.  It was acknowledged that Ruth was a beautiful woman as well as humble and gracious.  He was willing to do the first part but not the second part.  Consider that in Israel there were wives and even concubines, but only the wives of the man could win an inheritance for their children unless the man specifically willed them something.   This man already had heirs and did not want to damage their standing.  This shows something of a lack of faith in God to protect his heirs.

7 (Now in earlier times in Israel, for the redemption and transfer of property to become final, one party took off his sandal and gave it to the other. This was the method of legalizing transactions in Israel.) 8 So the kinsman-redeemer said to Boaz, “Buy it yourself.” And he removed his sandal.

This is the first time in the Bible that a shoe (sandal) was given as a wedding license.  Had he been the ONLY possible kinsman redeemer and had denied Ruth she would have had every right to receive the shoe herself and spit in his face.  It would have been a great dishonor to him.  Because Boaz was willing and able to do the part of the redeemer it was much less of a shame.  Boaz redeemed Naomi and Ruth and their land and even his relatives honor by taking Ruth as his wife.

9 Then Boaz announced to the elders and all the people, “Today you are witnesses that I have bought from Naomi all the property of Elimelech, Kilion and Mahlon.

He now has promised to pay off the people leasing the land and restore it to Naomi as well as restoring it to the name of any descendants of those three men listed above.  The property belonged to Naomi even though someone else lived there.  Once he paid them off she would live there again. 

10 I have also acquired Ruth the Moabitess, Mahlon’s widow, as my wife, in order to maintain the name of the dead with his property, so that his name will not disappear from among his family or from the town records. Today you are witnesses!”

In Genesis 38 we read about Tamar whose son Pharez was ten generations away from David who would become the greatest king in Israel.  Judah obtained her to be a wife for his son Er.  Er did evil in the sight of the Lord and God killed him.  Judah told Onan the next son to be kinsman redeemer to raise up seed for his brother.  As I stated in a previous lesson, Onan took her as his wife but did not want to raise up seed for his dead brother (sibling rivalry perhaps) and spilled his seed on the ground.  He had the right to refuse and his brother’s wife might have spit on his face but instead he had sex with her and at the last instant stopped before getting her pregnant.  God was angry with him for this deceptive sin against Tamar and killed Onan. 

Judah promised his youngest son but was terrified he might die too and withheld him from her.  A frustrated Tamar went so far as to pretend to be a prostitute so she could have a child by Judah for refusing to marry her off to his youngest son.  Bear in mind that a woman of that day was considered almost worthless if she couldn’t bear you an heir.  She desperately wanted a child.

Boaz was thrilled to take Ruth as his wife.  He was a man of noble character and the love of God.  He was comfortable with her foreign origins because his own mother had been an ‘accursed foreigner.’  Very often those who come from other countries or religions to serve God become the most diligent servants of God and country.  They have often come from great grief or degradation and in God find rebirth and comfort.  Ruth was just such a person and that passion for God and humility toward her mother-in-law helped God choose her to be in the lineage of David, Solomon and even His son Jesus. 

11 Then the elders and all those at the gate said, “We are witnesses. May the LORD make the woman who is coming into your home like Rachel and Leah, who together built up the house of Israel. May you have standing in Ephrathah (Ephrath) and be famous in Bethlehem.

This first half of their blessing was a standard one.  One of the primary responsibilities of any family in Israel was to build Israel into a powerful and godly nation.  They were to produce as many children as possible so their nation could be powerful and they were required to train them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). 

Ephrathah – or Ephrath – is an ancient name for Bethlehem (Genesis 35:19).  Rachel died on the way there with Jacob and was buried near there.  Ephrathah can either be a positive or negative connotation.  It means fruitfulness or an ash heap; depending on its use.  On the one hand it could mean that they truly wanted his house to prosper and be as fruitful as the house of Jacob.  On the other, Jacob’s favorite wife died in childbirth near there and many in the village were not happy that Boaz was marrying a Moabite. 

According to the Midrash (Lessons of the Rabbis), Boaz died on the night after his wedding.  He and Ruth had only one night together but she became pregnant with Obed (“One who serves.”)  Boaz had the understanding that only the men of Moab would have been cursed by God, not the women.  Whether or not it is true, the ancient Rabbi’s believed it to be so.  Some writings of the ancient teachers of Israel say Boaz was in his 80’s when he married Ruth.  That is another reason he is said to be a type of the Christ.  After redeeming Ruth, he died.

12 Through the offspring the LORD gives you by this young woman, may your family be like that of Pharez, whom Tamar bore to Judah.”

This last portion of the ‘blessing’ sounds like a typical blessing.  What it doesn’t say is that Pharez was the illegitimate son of Tamar and her father-in-law Judah.  I have mentioned before that it was desperately important for a woman to be fruitful and bear many children for her husband and tribe.  Because her first two husbands sinned against God she was barren and marked as a husband killer.  Just like Israel is blamed for God’s actions in history on Israel’s behalf (and hated by most of the nations on the earth), Tamar was blamed for the death of Judah’s two sons who killed themselves by their own sin.

Pharez (also written Parez, Perez, Peretz) means “breaking forth.”  His twin brother Zerah left Israel soon after the Exodus.  His family were offended by losing firstborn status to Pharez.  Historically, they founded the city now called London and were a large presence in the kingship of Ireland.  Zerah’s descendants as well as Pharez’s came from Judah and were both a nation of kings.  The prophecy of Judah said that the scepter would not depart from Judah.  Both his sons by Tamar became kings. 

The short sighted of Biblical study say Boaz was cursed because he sinned by marrying Ruth and died.  Those who understand biblical prophecy and how God has worked throughout Israel’s history know that Boaz was both redeemer and a prophetic view of how God has always worked in history.  His life with Ruth may have been short, but he produced the needed heir to continue God’s scarlet thread of redemption through history.  The blessing bore fruit.

David’s Genealogy
13 So Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife. Then he went to her, and the LORD enabled her to conceive, and she gave birth to a son.  14 The women said to Naomi: “Praise be to the LORD, who this day has not left you without a kinsman-redeemer. May he become famous throughout Israel! 15 He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age. For your daughter-in-law, who loves you and who is better to you than seven sons, has given him birth.”

In a very real way Ruth’s son was both a miracle and the redeemer of Naomi’s family line.  Without Obed, God’s plan for Israel might have come to a screeching halt.  You might say that God could have used some other child to produce David the King and a future for Israel, but God does what He has planned and not because nothing else could work.  It was His plan before history began for Ruth to bear Obed for Boaz, Naomi and the future of Israel.

Of all the millions of children born to the nation of Israel over the centuries, how many are unremembered by any but God.  Anyone familiar with Israel or their history is familiar with the name Boaz, Obed, Jesse and David.  When King Saul saw David, he asked his general, “Whose son is he,” as David went after Goliath (1 Samuel 17:55).  Abner did not know and when the answer came it would have troubled Saul.  The son of Zerah would not have mattered but the son of Pharez, the “one who breaks forth” would have been a problem.  David was a threat to Saul’s kingship.

16 Then Naomi took the child, laid him in her lap and cared for him. 17 The women living there said, “Naomi has a son.” And they named him Obed. He was the father of Jesse, the father of David.

Try reading this another way.  “Then Israel took the church of Jesus Christ and laid them in her lap and the women said, “Israel has born a son; the son of God.  They should have provided nourishment for his body.”  The name Obed means ‘servant.’  The church should be the servant of the whole world.  Israel is our parent.  We should be close and caring to one another; they offering us their wisdom and knowledge and we bringing that knowledge to the entire world. 

18 This, then, is the family line of Pharez: Pharez (1) was the father of Hezron, 19 Hezron (2) the father of Ram, Ram (3) the father of Amminadab, 20 Amminadab (4) the father of Nahshon, Nahshon (5) the father of Salmon, 21 Salmon (6) the father of Boaz, Boaz (7) the father of Obed, 22 Obed (8) the father of Jesse, and Jesse (9) the father of David (10).

The importance of the numbers here is that Pharez (1) was an illegitimate child.  No son of his until the tenth generation could be a leader or member of the congregation of Israel.  David (10) was the tenth in line and finally qualified to be a part of the congregation of Israel.  What a blessing to the nation that God’s plan was flowing along perfectly and the next king, David, would be the beginning of a line that would NEVER end. 

According to tradition, the book of Ruth was written by Samuel.  Many scholars say this cannot be true.  Personally, I prefer to go with tradition rather than scholars.  Scholars read someone’s writing and say, “It just doesn’t sound like them,” forgetting that a writer is someone who is ‘moved’ to write.  It is more emotional than intellectual.  Because of this a true writer will often change writing styles to fit his subject, audience and purpose.  The Prophet Isaiah is said by ‘scholars’ to be written by at least three or four authors.  The problem with this is that Jesus himself has said that all of Isaiah was written by Isaiah.

Samuel wanted the nation of Israel to know why David ought to be king and why even though everyone knew the family was under the curse of illegitimacy that curse was lifted by the time David came.  We often develop attitudes for or against something because of history, beliefs, what we’ve heard or been taught, or just because of a feeling.  David was not widely received as king for quite some time.  Without the book of Ruth to smooth the way it may never have taken place.  Samuel knew he was to be king.  Samuel anointed Saul with a small vial of oil (1 Samuel 10:1) but David with a horn of oil (1 Samuel 16:1).  This alone showed that Samuel knew David would have the greater anointing, the horn denotes strength.

Ruth provided a bridge through her servanthood and grace. 

Are you a bridge in anyone’s life?

Thursday, November 5, 2015

Ruth Chapter 3 - Ruth and Boaz at the Threshing Floor



1 One day Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, “My daughter, should I not try to find a home for you, where you will be well provided for? 2 Is not Boaz, with whose servant girls you have been, a kinsman of ours? Tonight he will be winnowing barley on the threshing floor.

Naomi may be mother-in-law to Ruth but in her heart, Ruth is her daughter.  She loves her as if she has come from Naomi’s own body.  Every mother longs to have all her sons and daughters cared for and loved.  She believes this may be an opportunity arranged by God for the future of her family and the provision for that future.  Naomi understood the ways of her people and she personally had the right to approach Boaz for herself.  Her love for Ruth was such that she chose to forsake her own opportunity to have a husband and created an opportunity for her daughter.  Have you ever asked yourself what are you might be willing to do without to make sure someone else has what they need?

3 Wash and perfume yourself, and put on your best clothes. Then go down to the threshing floor, but don’t let him know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking. 4 When he lies down, note the place where he is lying. Then go and uncover his feet and lie down. He will tell you what to do.”

Naomi didn’t just tell Ruth to go speak to Boaz.  She told her how to present herself, when and where to do it.  She even said to wait until he had finished enjoying the celebration so he was in a great mood.  Verse four describes an understanding of Hebrew rank and authority of that age.  A man wore his family name and rank on the hem of his garment.  In the New Testament the woman with the issue of blood took hold of the hem of Jesus’ garment and was healed (Matthew 9:20, Luke 8:43-44).  Whenever anyone touched the hem of Jesus’ garment they were healed (Mark 14:36). 

5 “I will do whatever you say,” Ruth answered. 6 So she went down to the threshing floor and did everything her mother-in-law told her to do.

When you know you can trust someone not to cause you harm, you know their word is good.  Ruth was not sure how this might all work out but she trusted her mother-in-law and did everything she said to do.  In all her ways Ruth humbled herself before God and her mother-in-law.  God says the meek shall inherit the earth.  Ruth portrayed this attribute perfectly.

7 When Boaz had finished eating and drinking and was in good spirits, he went over to lie down at the far end of the grain pile. Ruth approached quietly, uncovered his feet and lay down.

So far Naomi’s plan is working.  Boaz is full of joy, God has given them a good year and he fell asleep with a light and happy heart.  He has found himself a place at the far end of the pile of grain which was protected by the men surrounding it.  There has been a great deal of discussion over whether or not Ruth was propositioning him or actually uncovered more than his feet.  This is not the case. 

In Ezekiel 16:1-8 we see God observing Israel.  It is quite clear that Israel’s past history was filthy to God, rather like the past of the Moabites.  They began as a small baby and progressed to where God saw them as a woman old enough to be married.  He saw Israel’s nakedness and covered them with a corner of his robe.  In other words, He covered them with righteousness.  In the second half of that verse it says he made them solemn vows; He married Israel.  This is what Ruth wanted from Boaz.

8 In the middle of the night something startled the man, and he turned and discovered a woman lying at his feet. 9 “Who are you?” he asked. “I am your servant Ruth,” she said. “Spread the corner of your garment over me, since you are a kinsman-redeemer.”

Israel’s punishment for fornication, adultery, incest and other sins was simple…they were stoned to death.  To say that Boaz was startled was a huge understatement.  Any thoughts that she might have been propositioning him for sex ended with her words, “I am your servant Ruth.  Spread the corner of your garment over me, since you are a kinsman-redeemer (gaal).  She didn’t want a single night of passion; she wanted a wedding ring.  The choice of Boaz was a good one since his own mother was once the prostitute Rahab in Jericho and only as a kinsman redeemer would anyone in Israel consider marrying a Moabite or a Moabitess.  It just wasn’t proper otherwise.

As I said earlier, a kinsman-redeemer had to be a near kinsman, had to be able through wealth and the physical ability to perform if the late husband failed to provide his wife with a child.  Scripture does not credit Boaz with an heir before his marriage to Ruth.  He was apparently an older man in Naomi’s generation rather than Ruth’s.  He had sufficient wealth to purchase Naomi’s land back from the creditors.  He was close enough kin but not the closest and the honor of being chosen had to go to the nearer kinsman first.

10 “The LORD bless you, my daughter,” he replied. “This kindness is greater than that which you showed earlier: You have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor.

The choice of a husband for a woman of Israel was highly important.  Many accuse the Jews of being greedy or callous to outsiders.  The truth is that God instilled in them the understanding that knowledge is power and that a man (or woman) with no education is always at a disadvantage before someone that has an education.  It is also true that an older man was more likely to die sooner than a younger man and the man was the primary wage earner.  If Ruth had concerns for her future she would need to marry a younger and more vigorous man. 

It is unlikely that Ruth knew that Boaz was the right kinsman-redeemer to produce an heir who would be king.  It is unlikely that she knew her decisions and honorable actions toward Naomi would catch the very eye of God and place her in the genealogy of the Messiah.  She wanted to honor and serve her beloved mother-in-law.  That appeared to be her only motivation.  Her mother-in-law was concerned for the family name and Ruth’s future.  She knew Boaz could preserve both.

Boaz made an important statement to Ruth.  He said she had not run after the young men whether rich or poor.  This is true.  Ruth was determined to help Naomi and serve God.  This was her only true goal.  She was not worried about her future.  Naomi was concerned for Ruth and not herself.  That was her main goal.  Had either of them been jealous of the other or thinking only of themselves this whole plan of God’s would not have come to pass.  It was only through a willingness to put the other first that BOTH got what they needed (Philippians 2:3-4).  This doctrine is a major theme in the New Testament.

Putting another before yourself is an important part of trusting God to keep His word.  It is possible that the other is not as honorable as yourself and may try to cheat you.  Only God can make sure you receive what He has determined you should.  This attitude takes faith and a willingness to trust God at His Word. 

11 And now, my daughter, don’t be afraid. I will do for you all you ask. All my fellow townsmen know that you are a woman of noble character. 12 Although it is true that I am near of kin, there is a kinsman-redeemer nearer than I.

Scripture says to treat younger women as sisters and older women as mothers.  If you begin a relationship by treating someone as an untouchable family member then you are not tempted to sin with them.  You can treat them that way until such time as a decision is made to lawfully change the relationship to something deeper.  Ruth was probably at least 20 years younger than Boaz.  While he might have hope for a wife, he chose to honor her as a daughter rather than as a potential bride.  This was important.  Any other attitude might have made him behave foolishly.

He let her know that she was held in some esteem in the village.  They knew she had honor and was not a Moabitess sinner.  The word used for her character is hayit and means strong, virtuous and mighty of word and deed.  What Ruth said she would do, she did.  By this time she is probably hoping that Boaz will do the kinsman’s part since he is such a noble character but then he drops the knowledge that there is one nearer still.  The kinsman-redeemer that is required must redeem both land and family tree.  Technically he would be redeeming the land for Naomi but the family for Ruth.  This placed Naomi’s claim first which made an even older relative the nearer kinsman.

13 Stay here for the night, and in the morning if he wants to redeem, good; let him redeem. But if he is not willing, as surely as the LORD lives I will do it. Lie here until morning.”

From the moment Boaz met Ruth he protected her.  It is curious that he was so willing to trust and lean on God that he trusted Him to chose who would receive this amazing woman as a wife.  In the first sentence it is as if he is quoting the old song, “Que Sera Sera, whatever will be will be.”  The ‘but’ in the second sentence has much more feeling though.  But!  If he is NOT willing, then AS SURELY AS THE LORD LIVES…I WILL DO IT!”  He had her remain until just before daybreak so she would be safe.  How many times to we make life mistakes by working an outcome to the conclusion we want rather than to allow God to work it?

14 So she lay at his feet until morning, but got up before anyone could be recognized; and he said, “Don’t let it be known that a woman came to the threshing floor.”

Had anyone known that she had been there all night it would have damaged both their reputations.  Oddly, in the Jewish world, Ruth is considered one of the most honored of women.  In spite of her Moabite past, the Jews consider her to have received the greatest that God could give; to be the great grandmother of king David and a forebear of the Messiah.  Many people accuse the Jews of being arrogant and unwilling to accept proselytes to their faith.  In reality, they have been so persecuted throughout world history that they have for over a thousand years been forbidden to win converts under pain of death.  It was fear, not arrogance, that has prevented much witnessing on the part of the Jews.  In truth, they have often been extremely gracious to new converts. 

Too often today we fail to properly honor God’s word in our lifestyle.  We frequently do what we want and dare anyone to say anything.  God’s punishment for living in sin with someone was death by stoning.  How is it that we have come to a place in our Christian walk where we don’t even honor Him by basic decency?  It used to be a death penalty sin to be pregnant out of wedlock and then it was hidden and not spoken of.  Now it’s more common than waiting for marriage. 

15 He also said, “Bring me the shawl you are wearing and hold it out.” When she did so, he poured into it six measures of barley and put it on her. Then he went back to town.

Every Hebrew and Greek word in the Bible is given for our learning.  There are no unimportant words or statements.  She wore a shawl.  Why?  Because she was a modest and humble single widow.  He poured six measures of barley in it for a reason.  Had it been three it would have been a fellowship offering.  It was six.  He bundled it up and placed it on her head for carrying.  She walked toward her home and he set course for Bethlehem.

16 When Ruth came to her mother-in-law, Naomi asked, “How did it go, my daughter?” Then she told her everything Boaz had done for her 17 and added, “He gave me these six measures of barley, saying, ‘Don’t go back to your mother-in-law empty-handed.’

I wonder how well Naomi slept that night.  She was obviously awake when Ruth entered.  After telling Naomi all that occurred she said, “He gave me these six measures of barley, saying, ‘Don’t go back to your mother-in-law empty-handed.’  It did not matter whether it was barley or wheat.  It was six measures and they were addressed to her mother-in-law.  Numbers are quite important in the Bible and the number six is the number of man.  It also has another very important connotation…

18 Then Naomi said, “Wait, my daughter, until you find out what happens. For the man will not rest until the matter is settled today.”

Genesis 2:2 says, “On the seventh day God rested from all his works.”  Boaz let Naomi know that he would not rest until their property was returned and Ruth was a married woman.  Verse 18 was one of those times when you have done all you can; it is up to God to do the rest.  All you can do is wait on God (Psalm 27:14, 37:34, Proverbs 20:22).