Monday, July 27, 2015

Honor Thy Spiritual Father and Mother



3 John (Amp)
1 THE ELDERLY elder [of the church addresses this letter] to the beloved (esteemed) Gaius, whom I truly love.

John was the oldest of all the disciples.  Jesus even hinted that he might never die (John 21:20-23) which was not the case but some of his disciples chose to believe that.  He did live longer than any other disciple and according to history died in 100 AD at advanced age.  He was rumored to have been boiled in oil and miraculously spared and was interred on the island of Patmos for many years.  Everyone knew that he was the disciple truly beloved of God. 

Tradition says that when John was very old and near death he was asked what is the most important part of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  He answered that it was love … agape.  Some may seek to picture John as a somewhat effeminate man who merely spouted words of love and tenderness.  In reality John was John ben Zebedee, one of the son’s of thunder.  He and his brother James were hard fighting fishermen who powerfully portrayed how the love and grace of God could change a heart and mold a life.

When Jesus was dying on the cross and his mother wept on the ground below, Jesus looked down at her and said, “Woman, behold your son,” and then looked at John and said, “Behold your mother.”  Of all his disciples, John alone did not flee; when the women went to the tomb and Mary Magdalene discovered the Lord’s body was missing she hurried to tell Peter and John of the miracle.  Of all the disciples who traveled with Jesus, none was more beloved of Christ and more likely to be heeded when he spoke.

2 Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in every way and [that your body] may keep well, even as [I know] your soul keeps well and prospers.

The King James translation of this verse says, “Beloved, I would that you prosper and be in health even as thy soul prospers.”  Many take that to mean that if your soul ‘spirit’ prospers then your body and finances will also.  In the Amplified it appears to be a prayer for health and wealth to keep pace with his already strong faith.  I tend to believe that it is indeed a blessing rather than a specific promise of good health following spiritual maturity.  I have known too many mighty saints of God who suffered ill health and poverty.  Jesus even told the poor and poverty stricken church in Smyrna (Revelation 2:8) that they were rich.  God does not promise that all of His children will be rich and live perfect lives in this world.  We will suffer persecutions and setbacks as we grow; in fact Jesus told the wealthy church of the Laodiceans, “Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked (Revelation 3:17).”  Wealth is no indicator that you are ‘doing it right.’ 

3 In fact, I greatly rejoiced when [some of] the brethren from time to time arrived and spoke [so highly] of the sincerity and fidelity of your life, as indeed you do live in the Truth [the whole Gospel presents]. 4 I have no greater joy than this, to hear that my [spiritual] children are living their lives in the Truth.

Consider this statement of John’s.  He has no greater joy than to hear that his spiritual children live their lives in the truth.  Do you?  Are you blessed to know that those you have poured your heart into are prospering, possibly more than you?  We ought to be comfortable enough with our faith to trust God even when our spiritual children far surpass us.  I recall a story I heard about a man in a shoe store who used to pray for and witness to those who came in.  He ministered to a man who ministered to another man who inspired another man who won another man to the Lord.  That last man became a famous evangelist.  Sadly, I do not recall which modern evangelist that is; but you must ask yourself if you would be comfortable pouring your all into every life you come in contact with in the hopes that they will one day supersede you?

My late Apostle, Joseph L. Sims was one such man and as such I cannot think of anyone greater in that respect.  He reached out to fools and pimps, addicts and losers, preachers and actors.  His most powerful weapon was his humble grace and the ability to offer a strong arm and tender heart to all who he met.  I will admit that he was also able to deliver a swift kick or sharp rebuke when needed as well, but was quick to give grace to the repentant.  He was wounded many times over the years and never allowed it to interfere with the dispensation of God’s love and deliverance.  If he had a creed it was to make godly men out of those only God could love.  He was good at it.  I am proud to call him my father in the gospel.  I can hear him calling from heaven, “Come on son, you can do it!”

5 Beloved, it is a fine and faithful work that you are doing when you give any service to the [Christian] brethren, and [especially when they are] strangers.

How about this?  Do you consider it a fine and faithful work to offer help and finances to those who are actively doing the work of God in areas and ways that you are not able?  If you are a preacher, are the tithes you receive for you alone or are you always thinking of ways to bring help to the poor around you?  The last part of this, “…especially when they are strangers,” is most telling.  Strangers come and go.  They are not likely to be able to reciprocate with you and bless you in turn.  They come and go at the behest of the Lord and you may not see them again.  Are you willing to bless those who work passionately and tirelessly for the Lord knowing full well you will never receive anything in return?  The best you might hope for in this circumstance is a hearty, “Well done thou good and faithful servant.”  Is it enough?

6 They have testified before the church of your love and friendship. You will do well to forward them on their journey [and you will please do so] in a way worthy of God’s [service].

Apparently Gaius was one such leader of God’s people.  He was always quick to bless those who passed through on their way to minister God’s Word in virgin territory.  Notice that John says he does well to do so.  The word ‘well’ is kalos which means to leave no room for blame.  This is in spite of the vast number of people who would find fault.  He will discuss them later in this letter. 

7 For these [traveling missionaries] have gone out for the Name’s sake (for His sake) and are accepting nothing from the Gentiles (the heathen, the non-Israelites). 8 So we ourselves ought to support such people [to welcome and provide for them], in order that we may be fellow workers in the Truth (the whole Gospel) and cooperate with its teachers.

In the amplified version “Name” is capitalized because it refers to more than the sound of a name just as Jesus, Christ and Lord mean more than the sound of those words.  In KJV it says, “…his name’s sake.”  Name here is autos which carries the idea of presenting all that the name means, not merely identifying an individual.  The word ‘sake’ is hyper which means to go above and beyond.  These traveling missionaries are not merely telling a tale of God’s love; they are carrying that love, that power and that vision to all who will hear.  They are going above and beyond for the purpose of exemplifying the Word of God to the lost heathen.  They are presenting the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the Ending, the First and the Last, Which was and which is and which is to come; our Lord and Savior Jesus, the Christ. 

Defining all these attributes is only the beginning of what these brave ministers endeavored to bring to the lost souls in the pagan world.  To make sure they win as many as possible they refuse to so much as receive an offering from those they reach.  The church was supposed to send them out and the church was supposed to support them.  If we do not support these who go out and do the work then we have no part or honor in the work they are doing.  Preaching to the lost is the best and greatest work of any ministry; well above merely feeding the born again sheep.

9 I have written briefly to the church; but Diotrephes, who likes to take the lead among them and put himself first, does not acknowledge my authority and refuses to accept my suggestions or to listen to me.

John was the ‘beloved disciple’ of scripture.  None was closer to Jesus, not even Peter who often appeared to be the bold brash little brother who always tagged along and occasionally got in the way.  When Jesus asked Peter who he believed Jesus was he said, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God (Matthew 16:13-18).”  There is no doubt that Peter had faith along with his impetuosity, but though that faith, that rock of certainty would be used to build the church, he was never the ‘beloved disciple.’  Everyone who believed in Christ knew that John was one of the great and most senior apostles.  When he wrote you a letter, you listened. 

Diotrephes was apparently a local elder or pastor of a church near Gaius.  Paul desired him to assist these traveling missionaries which would have meant putting them up for a few nights and possibly giving them a few shekels to tide them over.  Diotrephes was that pastor who believed that he spoke for God more powerfully than anyone else.  John was a very gracious man by this time.  His rough edges had mostly been filed down and he sought to bring God’s grace and mercy to all mankind.  Even so, this gracious man knew the authority in which he walked. 

In John 15:7 he wrote, “If we abide in Christ and His word abides in us, we can ask whatever we will and it will be done for us.”  Did anyone abide more in Christ and His Word than John?  You might suggest Paul who wrote most of the New Testament or James or Jude who were actually Jesus’ brothers, but in truth, John was the truly BELOVED disciple.  He had a position that was unique and knew it.  He cared for and protected the Lord’s mother.  He was the one who lay at Jesus breast during the final supper.  When such a one makes a suggestion either through letter or face to face, you ought to consider what that suggestion will mean to your future in God should you make the wrong choice. 

Proverbs 11:24 says that a man can scatter abroad and have much increase while one who withholds more than is fitting will starve.  Diotrephes chose to withhold, to mock John and scorn his authority.  In the parable of the wicked husbandmen (Luke 20:9–19, Mark 12:1–12, and Matthew 21:33–46), it tells of those who are hired to perform a task and to provide rent to the landlord.  This hireling in his greed abuses the servants of the landlord and eventually murders his beloved son.  They supposed that the landlord was weak and ineffectual, unable to defend his own property.  In our case God’s son prayed for us while we were killing Him.  He took up our cause and prayed for our souls to be forgiven.  He paid the entire deadly price for our salvation and left his beloved disciple to assist in establishing the church.

Scripture says that the power of life and death is in the tongue.  The more we grow in Christ, the more we can be trusted to use the power of God wisely, the more this is true for us individually.  Diotrephes, like many in authority today, had forgotten from where his authority derived.  He did not really believe that at one word from John, God might dispatch a legion of angels to defend his servant’s honor.  The Son of God had already been killed for the salvation of mankind.  Does it seem wise for this man to mock or ignore one who was His most beloved friend upon the earth?

10 So when I arrive, I will call attention to what he is doing, his boiling over and casting malicious reflections upon us with insinuating language. And not satisfied with that, he refuses to receive and welcome the [missionary] brethren himself, and also interferes with and forbids those who would welcome them, and tries to expel (excommunicate) them from the church.

John’s description of Diotrephes is a pot beginning to boil over with his own selfish pride and arrogance.  It was not enough for him to simply tell John he couldn’t help him at this time.  He chose to allow his pride to run his mouth and began to speak evil of John and cast aspersions against him falsely.  Perhaps he told his people that he was closer to Jesus than John or that John was sinning against God and it was his responsibility to bring that failure out.  Whatever his thoughts on this matter, John was neither fearful or uncertain of how to meet this threat to the body of Christ.

Sadly, he did not stop there but even threatened to excommunicate all who would help those John had sent.  He even went so far as to attempt this against those with a love of God and John.  Have you ever known anyone like this…someone who believed they knew better than anyone what God desired in any given situation and would fight to make sure they were obeyed?  I have and it was not pretty.  Hear what John said about these situations. 

11 Beloved, do not imitate evil, but imitate good. He who does good is of God; he who does evil has not seen (discerned or experienced) God [has enjoyed no vision of Him and does not know Him at all

There are pulpits all over the world filled by men of God who love Jesus’s Word and await His appearing.  There are also pulpits around the world that are filled with men of pride, hatred and a desire to see the kingdom of God made over in their image and personal vision.  Satan began this when he believed himself to be equal with God.  He now seeks to continue his blasphemy in the hearts and minds of mankind.  In many cases he is hugely successful.  These men do not know God at all and He does not know them.  This does not stop them from insisting they alone know how we must approach God and obtain salvation.