Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Ruth Chapter 2 - I Would Like You to Meet



1 Now Naomi had a relative on her husband’s side, from the clan of Elimelech, a man of standing, whose name was Boaz.

People often wonder how Boaz was so comfortable with Ruth.  His mother was the former harlot Rahab who was rescued from Jericho when Israel took it.  God is a God of redemption.  It is obvious from his upbringing that he was raised with a powerful love for God.  His was a situation where many may have whispered behind his family’s back but no one would to his face.  It is apparent that he was an elder in the community as well as extremely wealthy.  He was also the eleventh generation from Abraham.  The closer kinsman would have been the tenth.  The Hebrew shows this in the numerology of the Hebrew words. 

King David had to at least be the tenth generation from Pharez, Tamar’s illegitimate son through Judah (Genesis 28:39), and could not be received into the congregation of Israel (Deuteronomy 23:2).  Since the closer relative Tov would have been the sixth from Pharez, when David the king was born he would only have been the ninth generation and unable to be crowned King of Israel.  David had always been God’s choice for king and as Samuel the prophet showed in the book of Ruth, only Boaz, the seventh from Pharez could be the kinsman redeemer if David would be king.

It’s wonderful that we have the view of hindsight to understand this but at the time, neither Naomi nor Boaz nor Ruth knew who MUST be the father.  Naomi wanted a husband for Ruth so she might find rest and for seed to be raised up in the name of her son.  Ruth wanted to bear children and Boaz was a lonely widower who needed a wife.  They pressed forward in faith as God would see fit as it says in Proverbs 3:5-6.  God ordered their steps.  In the next several verses Naomi had an inkling what was possible, Ruth did not want her mother-in-law to starve and Boaz was a godly man who saw a godly woman in need of godly assistance. 

Romans 8:28 says, “All things work together for good to those who love God, who are the called according to His purpose.  Can anyone say these three were not called according to His purpose?  Boaz had wealth and a heart to serve God.  He also needed a wife.  Naomi knew the rules of her society and needed a kinsman redeemer in all that it meant.  Ruth just wanted to support her beloved mother-in-law and to serve the God of Israel.  She didn’t know what was possible and knew Moabites were not accepted in Israel.  She needed grace AND mercy.

2 And Ruth the Moabitess said to Naomi, “Let me go to the fields and pick up the leftover grain behind anyone in whose eyes I find favor.” Naomi said to her, “Go ahead, my daughter.”

Have you ever truly been hungry?  I don’t mean the hunger that comes from being too lazy to travel to the store and buy something.  I mean the hunger that comes from having no money, no job, no food and no prospects for obtaining it unless you practically beg.  Ruth and Naomi were hungry.  Naomi had taught her the rules for gleaning in the fields (Leviticus 19:9-10).  It was a real miracle that they had arrived at the beginning of the barley harvest.  A week or so later there would have been nothing to glean.  Naomi was too old for the back breaking labor and without Ruth’s help might well have starved.  Ruth’s heart was merely to save her mother-in-law’s life as well as her own.

3 So she went out and began to glean in the fields behind the harvesters. As it turned out, she found herself working in a field belonging to Boaz, who was from the clan of Elimelech.

Once again Proverbs 3:5-6 moved on her behalf.  The Rabbi’s have a saying that coincidence is not a Kosher word.  In other words, God holds all the dice.  Have you ever gambled?  There is no such thing as luck.  God holds the dice in His hands and even if He allows you to think that you have rolled them, it is actually He that determines what number comes up (Proverbs 16:33). 

I can well imagine an angel walking alongside Ruth as she passed field after field blocking her vision.  As she approached Boaz’s field he stepped aside to allow her to see that field while God caused the clouds to part and streamers of sunshine lit the grain.  She knew her clothing was not as the other women’s and her accent was different.  Being molested was a very real concern but they had to eat and there was something comforting about this field.  She began to collect the scraps left behind by the reapers.

4 Just then Boaz arrived from Bethlehem and greeted the harvesters, “The LORD be with you!” “The LORD bless you!” they called back. 5 Boaz asked the foreman of his harvesters, “Whose young woman is that?” 6 The foreman replied, “She is the Moabitess who came back from Moab with Naomi.

I can picture Boaz as a big, happy man who loved God and life.  His greeting might have been the standard, “Shalom (peace) of many Israelis.  Instead he shouted across the field, “The LORD be with you!!!”  They shouted back, “The Lord bless you!”  It would appear his workers were happy people who knew the joy of the Lord.  This was not always the case.  Scripture tells us that some rulers and leaders were harsh.  Some of Jesus’ parables make this apparent.  Not only did he recognize all his people but he knew Ruth was a stranger.

As an aside, notice the foreman was not named.  He is a type of the Holy Spirit.  Boaz is a kinsman redeemer and a type of Christ.  Ruth is a type of the world who is introduced to God through Israel and Naomi is a type of Israel, scattered and then returned to the land.

The comment, “Whose young woman is that,” was a reminder that women did not generally travel alone.  The response is that she is the Moabitess who returned from Moab with Naomi.  It had to have been a serious blow for the clan to discover their brother Elimelech had run off to Moab to escape helping the poor.  To discover that his widow had returned alone with nothing but this cursed Moabitess must have filled the gossips with glee but Boaz was a different sort.  He was likely saddened to see them go but glad to see at least Naomi return.

7 She said, ‘Please let me glean and gather among the sheaves behind the harvesters.’ She went into the field and has worked steadily from morning till now, except for a short rest in the shelter.”

No doubt Boaz had heard much from the men and women in town prior to arriving.  This was probably only the second day of the barley harvest and he might have been surprised by her industrious spirit.  According to his foreman she had arrived early, worked hard and only had a short rest in the booth they had set up.  People who have prejudices or attitudes toward a specific people are often extremely surprised to discover they have positive attributes. 

8 So Boaz said to Ruth, “My daughter, listen to me. Don’t go and glean in another field and don’t go away from here. Stay here with my servant girls. 9 Watch the field where the men are harvesting, and follow along after the girls. I have told the men not to touch you. And whenever you are thirsty, go and get a drink from the water jars the men have filled.”

As an older widower himself Boaz considered the young woman (probably late 20’s or early 30’s) to be somewhat of a daughter in the clan (extended family).  Since she was in HIS clan he made sure she knew what was safe and what was not.  Let’s consider his admonitions.  1.  Work in my field and no other.  2.  Stay by my servant girls so you have mutual protection.  3.  Watch where the men are working and follow along after the girls. 

He informed the men not to touch her and told her to be careful not to get overheated, drinking water when needed.  She was not required to bring her own shelter or drink; he provided for her as a clan leader should.  The young men would be cutting the stalks of barley and bundling them for the girls to carry to the place of winnowing.  Whatever did not get bundled or carried off was free for Ruth to pick up.  In this manner he made sure that she would receive whatever was missed.

Scripture says, “Muzzle not the ox that treadeth out the corn.”  This means that the girls would bring the barley to a place where oxen were used to walk on the grain and break it off of the stalks.  They would take shovels and throw the grain into the air.  The light stalks would blow away in the wind and the heavier grains would fall into a pile.  When they finished there would be two piles, the farther one would be burned and the nearer one stored in baskets. 

The oxen were allowed to eat a portion of the grain as they treaded it out.  How much more should the poor be allowed to obtain some after the reapers in the field.  If our finances are so tightly controlled that there is no room to help the poor, then how can we say that we have the love of God.  He has concern even for the oxen.  How much more for human beings created in His image.  We should never allow our compassion for others to be snuffed out.

One of the complaints of the Jews is that they are more likely to help their own poor than the poor of another people.  An anti-Semitic might say, “You Jews only help your own people!”  A Jew might says, “We Jews HELP our own people.”  When just over half a million Jews began the nation Israel in the late 40’s and early 50’s they took in half a million Jewish refugees from around the world, found them shelter and helped them find or make new jobs.  Even today, the Jews offer interest free loans to their more poverty stricken brethren and help them become productive members of society. 

When the Palestinians in their midst were struggling with hunger and starvation and everyone pointed at the Jews for failing to help them, every Arab nation around them had discovered oil and became rich.  Those Arab nations could easily have lifted their brethren the Palestinians out of poverty and did NOT.  It was too good an opportunity to hate the Jews by keeping Palestinians poor.  The Jews even offered the Palestinians land if they were willing to accept that Israel had a right to exist.  They REFUSED.  The hatred of Jews is both irrational and self-destructive to all people.  God has promised to curse those who curse them and bless those who bless them (Genesis 12:3).

10 At this, she bowed down with her face to the ground. She exclaimed, “Why have I found such favor in your eyes that you notice me--a foreigner?” 11 Boaz replied, “I’ve been told all about what you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband--how you left your father and mother and your homeland and came to live with a people you did not know before.

I’m sure Ruth had seen many angry looks or heard rude comments about her former nation.  Not everyone was as noble as Boaz.  Consider Nabal who mocked David’s men and nearly got himself killed (1 Samuel 25).  Ultimately God DID kill him for being stingy and rude to those who were gracious to his men.  This man Boaz was in an entirely different level than she was.  He was a prince in Israel and she was most definitely a pauper.  These days everyone acts like they have rights.  Ruth fell on her face before this man and honored him. 

It is likely that she was an attractive woman though scripture does not say so.  It is also true that when he saw her she was tired, disheveled, dusty and probably did not smell the best.  She had been working out in the hot fields for hours.  When he came to her and spoke she fell on her face before him and asked what she had done to deserve his notice.  She was not just a foreigner but a cursed foreigner at that.  Scripture says that God resists the proud and exalts the humble (Proverbs 3:34).

Boaz informed her that he knew her heart, that she had served her mother-in-law well and had been a faithful loving bride to her husband.  She was willing to leave her homeland with no real hope of marriage or family.  Her move to Israel was completely by faith; faith in her mother-in-law and faith in God.

12 May the LORD repay you for what you have done. May you be richly rewarded by the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge.”

Not only did Boaz take notice of her and speak kindly to her, but then he blessed her.  Blessings are real.  Have you ever taken the time to bless someone who has helped you.  Boaz had favor with God.  His words to God, “May the Lord repay you for what you have done.  May you be RICHLY rewarded by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge,” were not just words.  People who have favor with God know their prayers will move mountains, change lives and bring hope.  We should all take time to bless those who have blessed others.

13 “May I continue to find favor in your eyes, my lord,” she said. “You have given me comfort and have spoken kindly to your servant--though I do not have the standing of one of your servant girls.”

As I said before, God resists the proud and gives grace to the humble.  Matthew 5:5 and Psalm 37:11 say that the meek shall inherit the earth.  An inheritance is a blessing you receive even though you have not earned it.  It is God’s desire to bless His children with the fruits of the labor of the unsaved.  Ruth did not speak with pride, but with humility.  She sought his continued favor and let him know how much she appreciated his gracious prayers.  She acknowledged that by the standards of Israel she was not even as worthy as one of his servant girls.

Attitude is everything but sadly, many have a bad one.

14 At mealtime Boaz said to her, “Come over here. Have some bread and dip it in the wine vinegar.” When she sat down with the harvesters, he offered her some roasted grain. She ate all she wanted and had some left over.

I’m sure she expected to return home late that night exhausted, hungry and ready to sleep.  Instead Boaz ordered her to come and eat with the rest of the workers.  He even handed her the roasted grain to help her overcome any shyness.  She was able to eat until full and still had more left.  Boaz made sure she was refreshed and encouraged in the Lord.  He took responsibility for her care.

15 As she got up to glean, Boaz gave orders to his men, “Even if she gathers among the sheaves, don’t embarrass her. 16 Rather, pull out some stalks for her from the bundles and leave them for her to pick up, and don’t rebuke her.”

By this time Boaz is so impressed by her humility and willingness to work hard that he goes beyond what the law requires and orders his workers to make things easier for her.  The Torah required that any grain that fell from their hands must be left for the poor.  He ordered them to deliberately drop some out of the bundles and make it easier for her.  They were told not to embarrass her or to rebuke her. 

17 So Ruth gleaned in the field until evening. Then she threshed the barley she had gathered, and it amounted to about an ephah.

She probably worked from six in the morning until six in the evening.  Normally a poor person would be able to glean a few twigs of barley here and there.  She might be able to glean enough for a day’s meal, a loaf of bread.  After following the reapers all day long and then beating out the grain she was able to gather 22 liters or 23 quarts.  That would be enough grain to last she and Naomi for several days. 

Revelation 6:6 says, “And I heard something like a voice in the center of the four living creatures saying, “A quart of wheat for a denarius, and three quarts of barley for a denarius....”  It took about a quart of grain to make one loaf of bread, either wheat or barley.  According to Revelation a man might work all day long for one loaf of wheat bread or three loaves of barley bread during a famine.  Because of Boaz’s help Ruth was able to glean enough for 23 loaves of barley bread…in a single day.

18 She carried it back to town, and her mother-in-law saw how much she had gathered. Ruth also brought out and gave her what she had left over after she had eaten enough. 19 Her mother-in-law asked her, “Where did you glean today? Where did you work? Blessed be the man who took notice of you!” Then Ruth told her mother-in-law about the one at whose place she had been working. “The name of the man I worked with today is Boaz,” she said.

By now Naomi’s hunger was probably overwhelming and yet she was stunned to see how much grain her daughter-in-law had brought home.  Instead of dragging into the house ready to drop in exhaustion with a few handfuls of grain, Ruth appeared to be well fed and cared for with an entire bushel.  Just looking at the raw grain was a miracle enough but then Ruth gave her the roasted grain to eat.  That let Naomi know that someone had watched over her and fed her.  When she discovered that the landowner was Boaz there must have been a powerful thrill of hope and thankfulness toward God; the first she truly experienced since the last of her sons died.

20 “The LORD bless him!” Naomi said to her daughter-in-law. “He has not stopped showing his kindness to the living and the dead.” She added, “That man is our close relative; he is one of our kinsman-redeemers.”

For all the pleasure of living a life and having an individual future, the people of Naomi’s day were focused upon the destiny of the family.  Mahlon and Kilion would have been even more focused on their offspring than their own lives.  They were married for ten years to Ruth and Orpah.  Had it been only one woman they would have blamed it on her dead womb.  That was the way of things back then.  There were no fertility doctors who could discover that the men’s own bodies were at fault.  It is apparent from the text however that both men were too sickly to impregnate their wives.

The focus of life in Israel or any other nation was to raise up future generations;  to build the nation.  God made arrangements for a kinsman to buy back any property sold to pay a debt or to raise up seed in the name of a deceased husband.  Usually a brother would marry the woman and her next child would continue the name of the dead man.  There were three criteria he had to fulfill.  1. He had to be a near kinsman (Leviticus 25:25, 25:48).  2. He had to be able to redeem.  If he was too old or injured to perform or poor and unable to redeem the land then he was off the hook.  3. He had to be WILLING to perform. 

In the case of Tov, the nearer kinsman, we will see that he was willing to buy back the land from the creditors but not to take Ruth as his wife.  When Judah told his son Onan to go into his daughter-in-law to raise up seed for his dead brother, he had sex with her but when he realized that the child would not be his but his brother’s he spilled his semen on the ground rather than get her pregnant.  For this lack of grace and mercy toward his brother and for failing to respect and honor his brother’s wife, God killed him.  He had the right to say no.  He did not have the right to say yes and then cheat her out of her child.  Boaz was a near kinsman so he passed point one.  We’ll see if he passes the other points.

21 Then Ruth the Moabitess said, “He even said to me, ‘Stay with my workers until they finish harvesting all my grain.’ “ 22 Naomi said to Ruth her daughter-in-law, “It will be good for you, my daughter, to go with his girls, because in someone else’s field you might be harmed.”

As stated earlier, life in Israel was less dangerous to women than in many countries but not always safe; especially for unaccompanied women.  Jacob’s daughter Dinah wandered off into a town where she should not have gone alone and was raped by the prince (Genesis 34). This would have been a lesson for all the children of Israel and probably a story retold generation after generation to promote safe behavior for young women.

23 So Ruth stayed close to the servant girls of Boaz to glean until the barley and wheat harvests were finished. And she lived with her mother-in-law.

Ruth was humble and worked hard to make sure she and Naomi had sufficient food for as long as possible.  During this time it is certain that Naomi continued Ruth’s education in the Torah and ways of Jewish life.  While I have yet to read a book about the trials of the Jews throughout history that actually mentions the work of Satan as part of the hatred they endure as a people; they are the people of God.  Because of this they are blessed by God as long as they obey His Torah but cursed by man as long as they obey His Torah.  Without the Law to protect and encourage them the Jews may well be of all people most miserable.  It is God’s Law, their choseness and God’s promise that gives them hope.

Naomi made sure that this amazing young woman who lived with her would have every necessary tool to find faith in the eyes of God.  We should study to show ourselves approved of God, rightly dividing the Word of Truth (2 Timothy 2:15).  The United States of America was founded upon the Word of God.  We began as a Judeo/Christian nation and until recently have always honored the Jewish people and their gift of faith to us through Jesus.  We taught our schools reading the Bible and saying prayers each morning.  Our nation became strong.  The two most hated nations in the world are the United States of America and Israel.  I mention this because without faith in God, you are the enemy of God.  When you have faith in God you are hated by all who do not believe in Him. 

Without faith the book of Ruth would never have been written, never have been lived and never have turned out the way it does.  Without Naomi’s teaching of the law Ruth would have never had the opportunity she did.  God always honors His law.

Monday, October 19, 2015

Ruth Chapter 1 - Decisions, Decisions, Decisions


1 In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land, and a man from Bethlehem in Judah, together with his wife and two sons, went to live for a while in the country of Moab.

During a famine the wealthy in Israel were responsible for assisting the less fortunate.  Elimelech was a wealthy land owner who according to Jewish tradition fled his home in Bethlehem in order to keep his wealth secure during the famine.  This displays a TOTAL lack of faith in God.  He was very much a secular Jew no matter the meaning of his name.  We will discover in this book that he sold all his land and took his wealth with him.  There are a few things you need to know about this particular setting.

The man’s name means, “God is my king.”  His very name declared a lie because his actions prove that God was not his king or he would not have disobeyed the law to flee.  He also would not have gone to Moab.  Jonah the prophet fled because he did not want to give God’s warning to the people of Nineveh.  God captured him anyway and sent him back.  Elimelech’s sin was far worse.  He abandoned the poor, the widows and the destitute rather than share his wealth with them.  This is a good lesson for this country’s wealthy to consider. 

The name Bethlehem (house of bread) in Judah means it is the Bethlehem where Jesus was born.  There is another Bethlehem in Galilee.  David and Jesus were born in Bethlehem in Judah or Judea.  It is SW of Jerusalem.  The other Bethlehem is only ten miles from Nazareth (North of Jerusalem) where Joseph and Mary lived.  Some argue that the Bethlehem of Jesus was the closer one, but how likely is it that they would have traveled in a caravan for more a day before realizing Jesus was not with his other family members if they were only traveling ten miles (Luke 2:41).  Bethlehem in Judea is four hours by car from Nazareth today.  That is where Jesus was born.  It is about 150 miles from Nazareth.

The final point is that they ran away to Moab.  Moab means, “From the Father,” and began as an incestuous relationship between Lot and his daughter.  In the beginning God ordered Israel to treat them with courtesy and not attack them but Moab didn’t get the message.  They sought to attack Israel every chance they got and the final straw was when they refused to help Israel and offer them bread and water when God released them from Egypt.  It says in Deuteronomy 23:3-4,

“An Ammonite or Moabite shall not enter into the congregation of the Lord; even to their tenth generation shall they not enter into the congregation of the Lord for ever: Because they met you not with bread and with water in the way, when ye came forth out of Egypt; and because they hired against thee Balaam the son of Beor of Pethor of Mesopotamia, to curse thee.”  It goes on to say that we should not pray for them or their blessing ‘forever. (v6)’

This is the nation that Elimelech chose to flee to.  They were family…of sorts, but family that God had ordered cut off.  This is one of those circumstances where Satan must have believed that God had made a mistake.  Under a curse like this no offspring from a Moabite could ever enter the congregation of God.  No king could ever come from this family…right?

2 The man's name was Elimelech, his wife's name Naomi, and the names of his two sons were Mahlon and Kilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem, Judah. And they went to Moab and lived there. 3 Now Elimelech, Naomi's husband, died, and she was left with her two sons.

Mahlon, whose name means Sick, and Kilion whose name means Puny were the two grown sons of Elimelech.  Because they were adult they were as guilty as Elimelech for making a move to live amongst the cursed Moabites.  Immediately after settling in Moab Elimelech died.  It wouldn’t have been so bad had they just passed through Moab, but they chose to settle and find rest in the land of those for whom God said there would be no rest.

Now Naomi is bereft and rather than returning with what money they still have to Israel, they decide to stay, further angering God.  Her eldest son ‘sick’ was now the head of household.  It was at this moment when we see what happens when you do not train your children in the ways of God.  He couldn’t see the correlation between his father’s instant passing and his decision to live in a cursed place with a cursed people.  They lived in Moab and rather than return to the land of their God and chose to adopt the ways of Moab and marry Moabite women.  This was forbidden by God.

4 They married Moabite women, one named Orpah and the other Ruth. After they had lived there about ten years, 5 both Mahlon and Kilion also died, and Naomi was left without her two sons and her husband.

First God killed Elimelech immediately upon his DECISION to live in the cursed nation and then after marrying Moabite women and living with them for ten years without any offspring the two men died.  Consider how much they paid in doctor visits in that pagan land to try and keep Sick and Puny alive.  You can’t live in disobedience to God’s Word when you are His chosen and expect to flourish.  It makes you wonder if they died right after the family bank account was emptied and they were destitute. 

At any time in that ten years they might have repented and returned to Israel and God.  Ten is the number of completion and the fulfillment of the law.  There are ten commandments.  In Genesis 15:16 God told Abraham that his children would return to Canaan in the fourth generation after the “sin of the Amorites was complete.”  God allows a complete season for repentance.  It is that important to Him.  Mahlon and Kilion failed to do so.

In 1 Thessalonians 2:16 we hear of those who “fill up the measure of their sin.”  God is gracious.  If at any time we cease from our sins and repent He will redeem us.  God asks, “Will you will be saved?”  The Holy Spirit draws you.  If you hear His voice and harden not your heart he will redeem you.  They hardened their hearts until they died.  Ten years means God allowed them the full measure of time to repent.  They did not.

6 When she heard in Moab that the LORD had come to the aid of his people by providing food for them, Naomi and her daughters-in-law prepared to return home from there.  7 With her two daughters-in-law she left the place where she had been living and set out on the road that would take them back to the land of Judah.

One must remember that in this period of history a woman had little in the way of rights.  She was raised and taught that her responsibility to the family and her people was to bear an heir.  This is why Sarah, Rachel and others were so incensed about their barren wombs.  God had said to man and woman, “Go forth and multiply,” and they could not.  Rachel and Leah are not known for their great faith or their wisdom.  They are the matriarchs of Israel and created a nation through their own wombs and the wombs of their maids.  It is for this that they are honored. 

To Naomi’s great sorrow and horror she has no living seed and no grandchildren to carry on.  She has two Moabite daughters who, in her mind, will not be received into Israel’s embrace.  She has heard that God has lifted the famine, the test he allowed to test His people, and for the first time in her life she is free to choose for herself what path she will follow.  She is without father, without husband and without even an eldest son to cover her.  She is alone before God and has chosen to return to Him.  She began down that road and then stopped to consider her two daughters.

8 Then Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, "Go back, each of you, to your mother's home. May the LORD show kindness to you, as you have shown to your dead and to me.

There is a rule of release.  If a person is released from their responsibilities you must release them three times.  This makes sure they know the importance of the decision they are making and acknowledge you have given them every opportunity to turn back.  Verse eight is Naomi’s first attempt to release her Daughters-in-law from their responsibilities to the family.  Naomi must have been a wonderful mother-in-law considering their responses to her. 

9 May the LORD grant that each of you will find rest in the home of another husband." Then she kissed them and they wept aloud 10 and said to her, "We will go back with you to your people."

In this first response they chose to stay with her.  Their love for her was obviously very strong and the desire to remain in this home rather than to go back home to parents who thought you married with your own life.  This is the first time they refused the offered release.  Both Ruth and Orpah loved their mother-in-law but one loved both she and her God.  Hebrew tradition says that Orpah and Ruth were princesses and highly favored in Moab.  Even now the one was beginning to question her faith and future.  Their names give you a hint of their decision. 

Ruth means friend.  We have many sayings for friend.  In 424 BC Euripides said, “A friend in times of trouble is a true friend but money will find many friends.”  We would say, “A friend in need is a friend indeed.”  Naomi as been translated as gazelle but it actually means mane or the back of the neck.  A gazelle will run away and show you the back of their neck.

11 But Naomi said, "Return home, my daughters. Why would you come with me? Am I going to have any more sons, who could become your husbands? 12 Return home, my daughters; I am too old to have another husband. Even if I thought there was still hope for me--even if I had a husband tonight and then gave birth to sons-- 13 would you wait until they grew up? Would you remain unmarried for them? No, my daughters. It is more bitter for me than for you, because the LORD's hand has gone out against me!"

Naomi is telling them the absolute truth.  She is too old to bear more children and is unlikely to remarry anyway.  She has had her chance and barring a miracle from God she must feel totally abandoned.  In verse 13 she reveals the depth of her pain and says, “It is more bitter for me than for you…”  They are still young, probably in their mid to late 20’s.  Verse 11 counts as only one admonition because it is part of the same statement. 

14 At this they wept again. Then Orpah kissed her mother-in-law good-by, but Ruth clung to her. 15 "Look," said Naomi, "your sister-in-law is going back to her people and her gods. Go back with her."

This is the final opportunity to leave.  Orpah did not wait any longer.  She kissed her mother-in-law good-by after the second release but Ruth would not let Naomi go.  Naomi made one more offer as was required to make sure she would in no way be accused of deception but Ruth loved her mother-in-law too much to leave and had developed a true and vibrant relationship with God.

16 But Ruth replied, "Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.  17 Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the LORD deal with me, be it ever so severely, if anything but death separates you and me."

This is one of the most powerful statements of faith in all the Bible.  Even secular colleges reference this statement as an example of the finest writing.  This statement is just as powerful as a marriage covenant and reflected the intense love she had for both God and Naomi.  It also displays her level of faith and a tremendous vow to the Lord.  Whether she would be accepted by those in Israel, she has fully accepted them.  We will see in Boaz’s comments that Ruth WAS in fact accepted by many of the people in Bethlehem.  That in itself was unheard of in that period of history. 

Her people were the hated Moabites who refused to meet Israel upon their exodus from Egypt with bread and water.  They were the people who sought Balaam the prophet to curse Israel.  It was through Balak the leader of Moab that Moab was cursed, but it was through Ruth and her TIKKUN, the miraculous mending, that Moab was somewhat redeemed before God.

18 When Naomi realized that Ruth was determined to go with her, she stopped urging her.  19 So the two women went on until they came to Bethlehem. When they arrived in Bethlehem, the whole town was stirred because of them, and the women exclaimed, "Can this be Naomi?"

Naomi had done her duty and now she bore the responsibility of both herself and her daughter-in-law.  Notice that from verse six to verse 19 they had not stopped walking toward the goal of Bethlehem.  Naomi had set her course toward home and would not be stopped.  Now the two of them traveled together, happy in each others company, until they arrived in Bethlehem where their arrival caused a stir. 

The word for stirred was hum which means to cause a tumult.  It means the town was turned upside down at their return.  It’s like Bill Gates returning home broke after the crash of Microsoft.  EVERYBODY was talking.  Some were angry to see them knowing full well the reason for her husband taking them away.  In many minds it was God’s judgment to see the uppity nose in the air family of Elimelech return home poor and destitute.  Others who loved God and knew His desire for restoration would openly receive them back with love and compassion.  In the flesh this would be a difficult time for Naomi and Ruth.  They had no husbands and were two of the many widows that abounded in Israel, a burden upon the nation, dependent upon handouts, hoping for grace.

20 "Don't call me Naomi, " she told them. "Call me Mara, because the Almighty has made my life very bitter.  21 I went away full, but the LORD has brought me back empty. Why call me Naomi? The LORD has afflicted me; the Almighty has brought misfortune upon me."

This statement of hers probably did more to stop outrage than any other.  If you know you have been judged harshly by God, why would you deny it?  None of us are perfect.  God says he gives grace to the humble and resists the proud.  The world is full of ‘pride’ parades and according to the Bible, God is resisting your life and bragging.  We have very little to be proud of.  All that we have has been given by God. 

Naomi says, “Why call me Naomi (pleasant) when God has taken all from me.  Call me Mara (bitter). In reality, her life is not yet ended and by faith will one day be restored (Job 19:21).  One day she will be Naomi again when God has redeemed her from her husband and sons sin.  She will have a future because God is a redeeming God (Ruth 4:7, Ephesians 5:16-17, Colossians 4:5-6).

22 So Naomi returned from Moab accompanied by Ruth the Moabitess, her daughter-in-law, arriving in Bethlehem as the barley harvest was beginning.

Observe the timing of God.  Their travels and their arrival back at home came the day after Passover.  By this timing God equates their time in Moab to be like their time in Egypt.  They arrived the beginning of barley harvest, the day AFTER Passover, a day of new beginnings.  Her husband and sons were those who did not place blood on the doorposts and lintels of their lives.  They were taken by the death angel.  She and her daughter made the step of faith and were honored for it.  It was a time of great deliverance and by God’s grace would be a time of reaping for them as well.